Don't be so hard on yourself. You have and are doing a masterly job!
This is how I see the US Numbered Highway system:
Since many of them were eliminated entirely or truncated from their original alignments once the Interstate System was under construction, they have been relegated to shorter segments of utility. Even though the highway may span several states and over a thousand miles, as a rule travelers won't cover much of the route. In fact, for a person to get from A to B, the quickest way may be a combination of US Highways: Take US X from A to A', then head off on US Y from A' to A", finally turning on US Z to get to B. For example, to get from Albuquerque to Kansas City, Apple maps suggests taking I-40 to Tucumcari, then NE on US54 to Liberal KS, then head north on US83 to US 160, then east back to US 54 to US 400 to US 50 at Hutchinson KS finally returning to the Interstate Highway System and I-35 to reach Kansas City. Clearly the Supercharger network does not come anywhere close to fulfilling this route. And I am sure that there are lots of people who want to go between those two metropolitan areas. Maybe not a lot of Teslans today, but still.....
So it gets tricky in determining how much of a US Numbered Highway should be included in your database. US395, US95, US50, and US6 come to mind, but I am sitting in California. Those highways are the only ones in much of the geography without driving countless miles out of the way.