I purchased a spare from ModernSpare and it's awesome. As for Tesla's service... Man that sucks and it's not how it's supposed to work. The way it's supposed to work is this: Tesla has a service range that they can handle. Outside of this they are supposed to put you in contact with a "Partner" that can assist you. That said, you are going to wait. I've seen this trend with most new car manufacturers and I really hope it changes. I'm not making light of the issue, but this is one of those cases where Tesla is following a trend that appears to be spreading industry wide.
I appreciate the reply ibGeek. So it's now Sunday morning in Albany, NY and we've called every tire store in the area, and of course, nobody has the tire in stock, and won't until Mon or Tue. For sure NOBODY has the exact replacement tire for the M3P so I'm going to have the right size tire for the rim, but it will nto match the other (3) tires. Not sure how that will affect ergular driving (I don't race this car, nor never intend to do so).
The Tesla SC where I had the car towed to does not open until tomorrow (Monday), and of course nobody within Tesla Service online (or god forbid get an actual person on a phone call), can tell me if they have any tires in stock. As I had noted above, the Latham, NY SC looks like a combo Tesla Solar + Tesla Car place, very small, and I doubt they do any substantial business there.
I'm going to call BWM when they open @ noon today to see if by chance they have it (thanks chewyc for the tip!). So it looks like because I was foolish to not think about buying a spare (because of Tesla's roadside assistance app where I thought I would be helped) I'm stuck away from home for at least (3) days. Tesla needs to offer on their app a kit like ModernSpare.com when people order the car. Just like adding options, I would have gladly paid it at the time now that I've goone thru this horrible experience.
As for StelthP3D's comments, I hear you, but when I bought the M3P, I didn't have an option for non-low profile tires. Anyway, the debris our car hit would have caused 18 or 19 tires to blow out beecause it damaged the side wall, not on the tread, so for my situation, it would not have mattered what type of size tire I had on my M3P.
Long story short, everyone needs to order a spare tire since Tesla does not, and I'm now out over $1,000 because of my stupidity of net getting a spare tire when I bought the car earlier this year. Now having to deal with the lack of a dealer network that can support me, I probably will not recommend anyone to get a Tesla, even though it's the best car I've ever had, which is sad. When Tesla took my calls and I could get a real person at a Tesla SC, it was a much better experience. Also, not being able to get an appt for service for several weeks is a problem. Enough ranting for now. I think I'll send Elon a Twitter that he should think about offering a spare when people order a car online.