here's an updated timeline from me:
Stealth Gray RWD
OD: 12/24/23 (carried over from 2023 M3 order)
EDD1: Feb 11 - March 17
EDD2: Feb 15 - March 14
EDD3: Feb 21 - March 6
EDD4: Feb 24 - March 7
EDD5/Delivery Day: March 3rd
Feb 15th prompted in app to review and accept changes, "isNotMatchedToRa00Vin" in the source code now False
Feb 22rd prompted to schedule delivery
Feb 24th VIN appeared in app (Shanghai/LRW)
fwiw, my other order from Jan 9th 2024 still hasnt been soft matched to a VIN and, EDD March 1 - March 29