Ok - so I called customer service. I assume many of you have spoken with Shane. Shane is great btw, for all the lack of communication from the Denver sales team, Shane has made up for that.
I asked him about setting a Tentative delivery date and he said that its best to wait for the text as that will give you a 99% more accurate time frame of when the car is nearing the end of its Transit at your delivery center.
He said my vehicle is listed in transit currently, but it has not left california at this time.
So more than likely i will take delivery by 11/17-11/21 based on how its going. Even though my EDD says 11/13 - 11/17
info:
Ordered 10/25
VIN Received
Current EDD 11/13 - 11/17
No Delivery Date text received yet
White on Black M3P
Denver CO