There is some legitimacy to the complaints about jjandorin, but there is also a big element of unfairness to the complaints. It’s as if jjandorin is on a freeway full of cars going 80-85 miles per hour, and jjandorin is going 70 miles per hour, and for some reason he is the one who is getting pulled over for a speeding ticket.
I haven’t really studied his older posts but my impression is that he is a work in progress, increasingly trying to be a bit more empathic than, say, he might have been a while back. That simply can’t be said about a few dozen of the veteran fanboys/EV car jocks who inhabit this site and assume that their expertise also doubles as a license to practice social ineptitude. Given the environment he exists in and the work he is putting in to improve himself, I believe he deserves some slack as far as complaints about his bedside manner.
I realize I’m 2 weeks behind this thread, but feel it must be said …
The role that
@jjrandorin is in, is an incredibly difficult one. It’s a constant barrage of information - some useful, some not. Some hurtful, some helpful. Some positive, some negative.
And, voluntarily, and for the good of us all, he’s chosen to spend hours of his personal time, every single day, doing his best to keep folks on target, information flowing and discussions happening.
It’s yeoman’s work.
Further, he’s continued to be an active participant in this community, sharing his experiences and knowledge with us all at the same time, and has done what I think is a *tremendous* job separating the moderator from the forum member.
Doesn’t mean we have to agree with all of his opinions or thoughts, but that’s true for ALL members of this forum. We may all agree and disagree at time.
That said, if he were just doing the moderation work and disappeared from the community at large, that would be a huge loss for all of us. It’d also be incredibly unsatisfying for him.
I’ve been moderating forums back into the BBS SysOp days and I have to say … it’s underappreciated by a very wide margin.
So just wanted to throw my thanks out there. He’s a very very rare breed who can make the distinction between moderator and participant and make it stick. Kudos for that!!