Was able to finally get my matrix headlights on my MYLR thanks to this thread, so thank you guys! They are plug and play as long as you have someone with at least level 3 access to change it. They would just need to change it in the gateway as stated before, and push another update.
The lights are much brighter, but my drivers side headlight is aimed way too high, and I cant adjust it anymore with the "adjust headlights" screen. Tesla mobile guy even said that he can't adjust it anymore and the motor might have busted during shopping. Any other ideas or suggestions before I start cutting into the light?
Thanks again for everyone's help.