Until a software fix is released, it's less about my personal chargeback and more about caring for customers. I can empathize with software bugs, written my fair share ... but we've given Tesla months to fix, and this thing is still being advertised and sold as a "universal" connector, clearly it is not. People need to know so they can make informed purchases.
And ya know - I just want to charge my EV, not be an unpaid Tesla QA troubleshooter. Though I've heard that is part the, uh, job here as a Tesla customer? I don't mind helping, but c'mon. We've narrowed it down to firmware, we got a repro and fix. Tesla needs to prioritize this, and do the right thing.