I just found this thread. I became more shocked at what I was reading as I progressed through it.
First of all, I don't understand all the posters saying the deceleration speed is no different than a manual ICE, etc., etc., or that drivers behind the slowing vehicle need to be careful/responsible, etc. All of that is irrelevant! Tesla has the autopilot cars exhibiting one behavior and non-autopilot cars exhibiting a different behavior. The OP didn't start this thread to begin a debate on which behavior is better. He was trying to help the community by letting us know about this issue, which initially he thought existed in all cars, but which he then, with the help of jpet, and other European owners, discovered was an inconsistency between AP and non-AP models. It's really as simple as that! It sounds like jpet checked with enough other owners to determine that this is a black and white split by AP / Non-AP. Wheel size, dual motor, snows vs. all-season--none of that matters at all. Just as the speed that various ICE vehicles decelerate is also irrelevant. The only thing relevant is that non-AP cars are exhibiting a behavior different from AP cars, and there does not seem to be an obvious reason for it, and it is, at least potentially, dangerous.
Perhaps Tesla does have a reason for having the AP cars exhibit one behavior and the non-AP cars exhibit another behavior. If so, I hope after the OP writes to Tesla, they will explain what that reason is. If, on the other hand, Tesla does not have a sound reason for the difference, I hope they will resolve it in a coming firmware update.
I just think the criticism of the OP, his methodology, his reasons for wanting to decelerate from speed without using the brake pedal, etc., when he came here trying to help were completely and totally misplaced.