All of your experiences sound normal to me after the recent winter weather software update.
People driving cars with frame-less windows often have a hard time entering the vehicle after freezing rain or a cold night outside in the snow. If the window does not release from the seal you have to decide whether to wait, scrape at visible ice on the rubber seal, or tug at the door hoping the trim and glass don't break when it releases. I dealt with #3 very often while driving an outdoor parked VW CC in Chicago.
The winter weather software update includes a feature where driver and passenger windows are rolled down a few millimeters to clear the surrounding trim when the car is locked. In the case that everything is frozen this would allow you to tug on the door without being concerned about damaging the window or surrounding trim when it finally releases.
Now, before you unlock your car both the driver's and passenger's window are rolled down a few millimeters. When you pull the driver's side door handle, the driver's window will roll down even more to release the door. When you close the door the driver's window will seal and the slightly opened passenger window will also seal.