I'll update everyone here who has helped me this weekend, we will be driving back to LA this Friday.
Thank you all, like I said this is an awesome car.
The optimal way from a charging standpoint is to get to a charger with 5-20% charge and then charge only to about 60-65% (or even less) to get to the next charger with 5-20% charge. In theory, you'll only take between 15-20 minutes at each station doing this so adding a stop or 2 will still be much more efficient. The charge rates are so much faster under 60% and tend to drop off rapidly after that. Good luck