Maybe look at it this way: For some of us, the preference relates to "need" and not "want" and the "need" is usually greater with short range EVs vs. long range EVs.
As a blanket statement short range EV's will likely need to charge more often. But just the same, an EV, regardless of it's range at the top end, has just as equal a "need" when your SOC is low, and you have some distance to your next destination.
Again, if my ICE tank is empty, I need that gas pump just as much as you do regardless if I have a 40 gallon tank and you have a 12 gallon tank.
When it comes to "need" it's first come, first serve, and you can remain as long as the "need" is required and permitted by the time limit of the charger, if any.
Yup.
When it comes to "want" -- if you have a long range Tesla, or short range EV, and you don't "need" the charge but just "want" the free electrons, then in my book you're a inconsiderate arsehole regardless of the battery capacity of the vehicle you drive.
In general, I agree with not tying up a limited charging resource if you don't need it. That having been said, chargers are offered to encourage EV usage. There are many scenarios, such as workplace charging, etc... where the benefit should be equally shared by all.
Logically, that applies more to Tesla owners given the large battery pack so the "need" is less likely and the "want" is more likely.
Does that make sense logically to you?
Again see my "low state of charge" example above. We don't really know that.
What's more, there's a good dosage of personal responsibility with choosing a vehicle that meets your needs, given the overall charging that may (or may not) be available to you given the overall limited resources available.
If you expect priority for a publicly available resource equally offered to all just because you bought a lesser capable vehicle despite your needs, then that's just as much of an a-hole move as charging when you don't need to or hogging a space after your got the range you need.
Just because you didn't get a sufficient lunch prior to the flight doesn't mean you are entitled to my free pretzels.