For people hitting Hamilton, especially north bound, you can use exit 3A on I-195, then make a left at the first light there. Nav will find the right route (like 2 more easy turns) and you can come out on 130 just a hair past the supercharger and have a much easier time getting in without having to take that stupid jug handle at that super long light when using the exit off of I-195 for 130. It's a tiny bit longer, distance wise, but it's almost always faster time wise for me. I used to do a lot of work in that area and got to know my way around pretty well.
If you're heading north your best bet is to just take I-295 up to I-195, then do the above, then if you're heading further north hit the TP from there. Save on tolls. Reverse is possible southbound and exit the TP at 195, but you don't get the exit 3A on 195 speed-up when heading southbound since it's be backtracking a couple of miles.
Back to DE, on my north bound trips I've been hitting Woodbridge and skipping it for my NJ destinations (southern NJ), so no biggie there. For southbound, sometimes I'll hit Newark for a 100% top-off charge while eating breakfast or lunch there, then skipping Woodbridge for Glen Allen. It's doable even in the winter if you keep your speed in check in an 85. See some of my first posts on this forum for my first supercharger trip ever before Woodbridge was built.
I do the same northbound if I feel like spending a bunch of time in Glen Allen for some reason, but I've been tending to just top off enough for Woodbridge lately, even though I hate getting to/from Woodbridge and 95 I hate waiting around for that 100% charge when I don't have anything useful to do while waiting. I won't attempt Glen Allen<->Newark without at least 97-98% SoC. I've arrived with single digit miles at the end of that leg too many times not to.
Tomorrow I'm probably skipping Newark, to avoid a potential wait, and heading for Woodbridge (can get there with 90% easily, at speed, with heat), Glen Allen, South Hill, Burlington, then home. Should be all really short stops except Burlington where we might do some shopping if it's not too late in the evening.