Not convinced that isn't just "internet knowledge" or poorly run "squeaky wheel" surveys than real statistical data. We've had our Model Xs since 2017 and 2018 and had no problems at all with any of our doors (including the FWDs).
As pointed out before, there are other car brands that use flush/non-traditional door openings (Mach-E being particularly far from a regular door handle), and most cars auto-lock the door anyway when in drive. Breaking into a vehicle with a disabled driver isn't new and no glass will be immune to a blow concentrated at a single point.