1. I can't actually know how he feels but am discussing the trade-offs he is obviously willing to make over a period of 3 years since the first fatality to which AP contributed. From this I can deduce that saving costs is more important to him than wasting a few more customers' lives.
2. He says AP is safer overall, because, well, he needs to keep selling it, but neither you nor I know whether he truly believes that. Certainly the stats he uses are pretty questionable.
3. I conclude he is cavalier about safety because he has failed to resolve a fundamental safety problem [AP ploughing into massive obstacles in planned path at 80mph without brakes or warning tone] yet now proposes to build much more complex functionality, likely to induce an even greater degree of driver complacency, upon this unsafe sensor basis, namely the inadequate radar and driver attentiveness monitoring system.
4. No, I've had relatively few problems with my car. Further I do not hate Tesla in the slightest and support the declared mission with much monies. What I am sceptical about is how the car I have paid for will ever reach the promised FSD in a manner which is safe and reliable, such that I could trust it to drive unsupervised at L3 without having to worry about my wife & children ending up plastered @80mph into the tail-end of the first stationary traffic jam it encounters?
5. IMHO the only way that can ever happen is with, at minimum, a radar sensor upgrade to go along with HW3. And a DAMS worth a damn, i.e. which tracks that the driver's eyes are actually open and focussed on the road ahead, would also be a great help in getting to L3 approval without unnecessarily wasting further customers/3rd parties.