It's a new (self) build so we had the option from the grid Co to go single or three phase. A bit more than 10% cost difference between the two which I thought was well worth it for various benefits (more heat pump options, scope for more PV, faster car charging). It's also a big house plus potential outbuildings on today's technology (no other energy source even if our uses are efficient) so I thought worth a bit of extra headroom for some unforeseen change in the future.
Our supplier (E.On) around Christmas time couldn't offer a smart meter. In fact, they couldn't do a SMETS2 one on single phase either. And the other smaller ones I called wouldn't do a new build at all because they'd only take on an existing meter/connection. So we have a new but dumb meter. I figured I'd leave it a while and try again but now we have an EV I'd be keen to hurry along to an EV tariff.