My current car is a 23 1/2 year old Buick I bought new in 1992. I did have to replace the catalytic converter a while back, but it still has the original radiator and transmission, as well as the original starter, water pump, and air conditioner unit. I did have to replace the alternator at 6 1/2 years, it went before the original battery.
I've read about the milling noise complaints, but finding a recording of it wasn't easy. I did finally find this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FrOixtfh4H8&app=desktop
I've had to debug some very strange problems encountered in the field. I'm chasing one right now that only happens on one system in South Korea. Sometimes it can be tough to run a problem to ground and sometimes there are actually multiple things going on that can have the same symptoms.
Micropitting in the bearings from stray currents could be a problem. Stray ground currents is one of those topics that can get so complex people write doctorate dissertations about them. I had a colleague try to introduce me to the topic once and I delved into it deep enough to know it was one of those things you either base your entire career on as an expert in the field, or you find an expert in the field to troubleshoot anything beyond the basic ground problems. With the levels of currents going through the motor, especially at high acceleration, keeping the current going where you want it to go is tricky. If you try to isolate currents with insulators without doing it right, you could end up creating capacitors within the motor, which is a whole other problem. High currents could also eat through insulators over time.
It would be interesting to know the characteristics of the cars and drivers who are seeing the problems. Do they tend to be performance drivers who tend to drive with more aggressive throttle, or some other identifiable characteristic, or does it happen more randomly? It obviously isn't one batch of drive units. If the problem isn't the bearings, but is something in the electronics, what are the batches on the electronic parts that are in bad drive units compared to the batches in other units?
Counterfeit parts is a serious problem in the electronics business. Even big companies have been bitten. A few years back several LCD monitor makers got bitten with counterfeit capacitors and had a lot of failures in the field. I had a high end Viewsonic that I resurrected by replacing the capacitors. Even non-counterfeit parts can have problems. I ran into one problem years ago where one batch of parts in a box going on aircraft was bad and only failed under certain conditions.