One of my biggest challenges is that I cannot connect my car to my WiFi - I live in a condo with a separate garage and thus far have not been able to get the signal out there. I do tether to my phone from time-to-time but nothing comes up.
From what I've read elsewhere, this is not an uncommon thing to experience. I've only had the car three weeks as of today and it sounds like it is not uncommon for new cars to not be updated right away. Besides (also based on what I've read here), when my car is ready to update, I will get a message.
I'm not worried about it. I have a service appointment scheduled in a couple of weeks and if it hasn't updated by then, I will ask.