Got my 2021 M3 LR AWD last week and got Michelin X-Ice on my spare 19" from my 2019 (lease return). Ran into the same issue, luckily found this thread and it then made sense...I was about to go yell at the tire shop. Anyway, $440 later ($300 for TPMS, 140 for labor) later and it should be all set for pick up later today. Side note, lucked out and asked parts guy if they had the splash guards and some unfortunate soul forgot to pick his up and I now own them