I grew up in NYC, and still have family there, and have family in Boston. In also about 18 months, I've put on close to 30k mlies on my car. Most of that up and down the east coast (DC<-->NYC, DC<-->Boston, a few trips south too)
I'm not going to try to count how many times I've supercharged, maybe less than you, maybe more, I just don't know/care.
Maybe you forget, but before the expansion, Delaware was congested ALL the time. I've posted pictures of 4-5 car waits at DE.
Also the 2 superchargers at the NJ rest areas are occasionally full (4 cars, 4 slots). I've never had to wait in NJ, but I have arrived/left with no open spaces.
And while this is more of an ICE issue, not a packed issue, the SpC in CT (Greenwich? I forget), where the signs allow you to park a regular car or a Tesla, yeah, I've had to actually wait there for someone to pull out.