I sincerely appreciate the support, but does that mean I have to agree with you?
My observation is that most (if not all) of the time, you jump out of the gates harshly attacking people with an immediate adviseral tone and attitude, just to prove people wrong (or at least
think you are proving people wrong). There are much nicer and friendlier ways to engage people you
think are wrong, without attacking these people who provided zero provocation. Everything you post is said with complete absolutes, you're always 100% right, and there's no point in arguing with you since everyone else is always wrong, everytime. As the saying goes:
"You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar" or as dictionary.com rephrases it: "
You can win people to your side more easily by gentle persuasion and flattery than by hostile confrontation." Words to live by.
No, it doesn't mean you MUST agree with me but shouldn't you at least consider my position, supporter or not?
I'll take the bait, let's examine your critical review of me as a member of this community, shall we?
You say that most of the time I jump out of the gates "harshly attacking" people. Let's use this thread as an example since you felt the need to derail the conversation here because you clearly felt I was "harshly attacking", right?
My first post to this thread was the complete opposite of what you just claimed. It represents exactly what I just said about my posts; It was me posting first-hand information meant to help and challenge misinformation in a non-confrontational manner to better the community via knowledge transfer.
Someone presents FUD as fact to counter what I just stated and even then, I'm asking specifics about their stance to hopefully bring out an intelligent conversation on the topic since I can provide insight. This is where people tend to fade out of the conversation when their stance is challenged and they actually don't know their stance as well as they initially thought they did. Kind of like people saying Teslas burst into flame all of the time when you mention you own one because that's "what they heard" so it becomes fact. I digress.
As the thread progresses, you find me going into even further detail when I feel like someone is possibly reading what I'm saying wrong (or I'm wording it poorly) so it's not understood in a way that could potentially be dangerous to them. In an effort to make sure what I'm saying is understood fully, I go into more detail of what I'm saying. My intent is to help the community with my first-hand experience on this topic. Anyone who takes a moment to search the words in this topic will find useful and helpful information rather than just FUD and speculation. This is, as always, my motivation. I spend a lot of my time typing up posts in great detail with the motivation to provide knowledge that others might benefit from. I also benefit from similar information on topics I'm not as knowledgeable on and this is why I feel compelled to give back. This is how communities work.
Fast forward a little bit more and we start to see people coming out of the woodwork to drop pure unsupported FUD as fact to further scare people away from actually considering if it's something they should be fearful of or not. That's the only part where my tone isn't friendly and supportive and I think you can see why. That post does NOTHING to intelligently further the conversation.
Shortly after that, others (namely you) come in directly challenging my posts while offering no fact or proof of their stance. Even though I'm confident in what I'm saying, I'm still not "harshly attacking" anyone. I make it clear on the front end of my post that the information contained therein isn't accurate just so people who don't read word walls (such as this) know at least that there's reason to doubt the quoted post just in case they genuinely find enough interest in the topic to research further. I was diplomatic and at no point did I "harshly attack" you or anyone else yet you seem to be convinced I did. Why is that?
I'm really not sure how I can ever overcome a few member's insistence that I'm the devil and can do no right. Honestly, I don't even care to because the problem is theirs, not mine. The few people who seem to have a problem with me offer nothing to better the community so it's no loss. You're about the only one that has done anything that benefits the community so it's too bad I can't convince you to read my posts with a little bit more of an open mind as to what I'm actually saying w/o assigning tone that was never intended. You're free to believe whatever you want and it's clear that I'm not going to change your mind so I won't lose any sleep over it.
I actually feel like I kept it together pretty well considering that I provided my bona fides on why I'm a subject matter expert on this particular topic then had numerous people challenge my expertise with zero fact or proof other than hearsay and conjecture while spreading FUD and misinformation. You'd be cool with that being presented as fact knowing that the misinformation could end up costing someone tens of thousands of dollars?
Maybe it's your insistence to read tone into my posts whenever you see my username that is causing you to see my posts in a negative light when they're actually not negative at all?