For the AZ guys - I've had my Roadster in Surprise for just short of 3 years now. The S has better cooling characteristics than the Roadster, so hard to tell how this translates for your cars. I've left the Roadster at spring training ballparks for 4 to 5 hours, unplugged, and unshaded, and never had a problem with the cooling system using so much energy that I can't make the return trip. Longest of these routes is about a 130 mile round trip and I've used the A/C to and from the ball park (during the trip back, the usually A/C loses cabin cooling for a couple of 5 minute periods to help cool the batteries.)
I've plugged in the car to recharge at 1 to 2 am in my non-cooled, always hot garage nearly every night since I got the car. Never had the car not finish charging for the next day's use. I considered installing a vent fan, but thought I'd try it first and see how it handled the heat. Seems to do okay, so I never installed the fan. Even hot nights cool to what, mid-80's? The Roadster system seems to handle it. Since it's the last annual checkup under warranty, I'm driving the car to LA this month to get it checked out.
About 6 weeks after I got the Roadster, I took it out on one of the county black top highways on a 115 degree day to do some...er, tests for acceleration. After about 1/4 hour, the Roadster alarmed and told me PEM was being set to half power due to overheating. I slowly drove the car back to my garage (about a 20 minute drive) and plugged it in. I called Tesla, set the car so they could get a remote readout and left the car plugged in, where it showed an "waiting to charge" state. The car A/C ran for about 24 hours before the batteries got cool enough to charge, and then charged as normal. Tesla sent a ranger out to check the car the next day, anticipating the requirement to change out the PEM. Remote engineering analysis showed the car did what it should have done, so the original PEM was left in the car. Based on this incident, Tesla installed a software change to increase the high temperature limit in the PEM because they had not expected the car to see the surrounding ground temperature that AZ black top generates. I haven't had such an incident again.
It's just a car and I try to treat it like a car. I'm not babying it, nor running spreadsheets or doing battery pack data analysis because that's not interesting to me. I try to follow the instructions Tesla gave me, leaving the car plugged in when it's in the garage. I've done a couple of trips 3 - 5 days in length and charged the car in range mode during those times while I was on the road. My original standard ideal mileage charges were 192ish. I'm now getting 185ish after 22,500 miles and 3 years. Hope this helps someone. PM me if you have any direct questions I can try to answer.