I can't say I'm entirely surprised. When writing my first letter to my legislators I tried to think of clever arguments that would sway me if I were in their position and however rational they were (consumer choice, free market, environment, etc) I couldn't think of one that was better than the dealership argument: we give you money for agreeing with us and will support the other guy if you don't. Not enough people in CT care about this bill to oppose the dealerships.
I can also understand this position from the dealership perspective. Its not that they feel threatened by having to compete with Tesla, its that they are afraid their own manufacturers will follow suit and nix the need for them, the middleman. They know people hate them and would rather go to chevy.com and order their cars. This is a bit of a slippery slope argument but its compelling to them none the less.
Its a terrible situation that I'm not sure will be fixed by next year's bill. Makes me wonder what was different in NY where they did seem to get over this issue. At least CT is a small state and the NY store is just an hour away from me.
I think our only chance is Tesla becoming more mainstream. Everyone (and I mean everyone) I talk to about my model 3 reservation asks me why I didn't just go to Milford to order my Model 3. No one realizes selling Teslas is even illegal, never mind a bill like SB3 existing. Until that changes I fear similar bills will continue to fail. My guess is sometime around 2019 at the earliest.
I agree with a lot of this - I've always thought that dealerships should have left well enough alone - they had laws in place protecting the relationship with their manufacturer. So why pervert the laws in such a way that if (read 'when') they lose, they lose the nice cozy protectionist box they've been sitting in? Manufacturers are ready to sell online - you can design and price out a vehicle today on just about every website, just can't purchase it. So of course they're worried. Consumers will choose & it's likely they won't choose the dodo bird.
But none of it explains why GM is behind so much of the activity we see going on. It feels personal, like they've lost sight of the business goal and are just determined to win at any cost, while ignoring the long-term impact on their reputation. I am honestly dumbfounded by their actions.
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But as to your point that people aren't going to care enough... we have to help them care. What I mean by that is while letter writing is necessary, a good way to connect with your legislator, the public doesn't see that. Legislators can write nice replies and never let you know they voted the opposite of the 100:1 letters they received. You only know they voted in opposition to your position.
Publicity. Letters to the local paper. Participate at National Drive Electric Week in September & let people know they can't buy a Tesla locally. Anything that makes it clear what public opinion is - and then show up show up show up for hearings. Shine a light on the vote.