You are absolutely right, but we are all humans and we do mistakes. Thats why AEB is there. You really do not believe that the driver disabled the AEB, do you? Seeing this should really rise reasonable doubts about the Teslas AEB and Tesla has to explain this.
I would be the first to advocate for the user to be able to download own logs, and analyze them - I do UAV log analysis.
Unless you have the log, it's really pointless.
-the accelerator could have been pressed
-the car may not even have AEB
-the warning configuration is unknown (early late)
-we do not know if it is an AP1 (relying mainly on radar) or an stereocam AP. (Radar cannot properly discriminate between stopped vehicle, and other reflections.)
-we do not know anything about the radar data collected, of the camera/radar were properly calibrated... nothing.
Tesla does not have to explain anything, but I would love to have the logs, but no car maker gives them out...
I've seen plenty of them from Volvo or Subaru working great.
yes, google all those nice videos of Volvos crash during automatic-stop tests in front of journalists, that happened more than once. this is the latest one I know of:
My neighbor, (with Volvo V90 (2018) disabled at least those two functions (I do not know the names)
1: warning that went bananas on narrow roads (trees near road, forest not trimmed) - aka: the road home
2:the collision thing that braked hard every time due to a transformer hut that is placed near a road turn (so you head for it every day) - which is the reason he asked me if my did that. - but it also braked hard for busses on bus stops (hardly, but outside otherwise narrow lane)
All such things have a narrow balance between "useful" and "nagging mess"
I prefer an occasional warning, and later maybe "too late" braking, which would save a vigilant driver from hard crash, or allow to stop in time if responded in time.
I do NOT prefer crazy agressive warning mess that makes people disable the features altogether.