There's what DID I choose and what WOULD I choose.
5 years ago, I chose EAP for $5K because at the time I wanted to invest in Tesla's mission (this was at the very beginning of the Model 3 ramp, so they were certainly not in the same financial position they are now) and be at least partway to FSD. I had no expectation that FSD would be coming any time soon (despite Elon Musk's insistence back then of an LA to NY unassisted "summon"--I am even less optimistic today by the way!) but I did figure that if I kept my car long enough, eventually I could see getting FSD. Back then of course, it was $9K all in, with EAP being the first $5K.
Then they had a fire sale on FSD for only $2K, so I took advantage of it, again not figuring it would be truly FSD any time soon, but I saw an opportunity to grab it, so I took it.
But would I do that again today? No way! I could easily live without FSD. It's really not a driver assistance tool at this point. While it may do the right thing 99% of the time, you have to pay a lot of attention and be ready for that 1% 100% of the time. It can't be used to earn money or to multi-task while driving to work or any of the other things that supposedly make it worth the money now, and it won't be for a very long time.
As for EAP, I would certainly miss the ability to be able to use my turn signal to initiate a lane change. Navigate on Autopilot is nice, but before they merged FSD onto the highway stack I would mostly have it off because it wasn't reliable in changing lanes automatically. Even now I have "minimal lane changes" turned on and it still insists on occasionally changing lanes when I don't want it to. But do I think that capability is worth $6K? No, not really. And I really only use that on road trips anyway. The other EAP features like smart summon really don't work reliably anyway.
As for FSD, it's valuation at $12K is based on it's potential future value as a way to let your car earn money. But when will that be? We have no official timeline, nor could we as not only does it depend on future technological progress, but also regulatory approvals. And believe me, progress towards that goal has been incremental at best. It will not be any time soon.
Take a look at how the resale market values FSD. I have heard it's about a $2-3K bump, which seems about right. And I'm pretty sure that's pricing in the value of just the EAP feature to change lanes when prompted. I'd stick with the plan of subscribing to FSD occasionally (such as on road trips when the EAP features would be most useful). At $200/month, that's about 30 months worth of road trips to get up to the EAP level, which unless you are always taking road trips is probably going to last you 8-10 years anyway. And you may actually find that it's not even as useful as the "influencers" and Elon are telling you.