I've done my best to speak my mind on this car, and will do so here as well.
In many ways, the Tesla DOES lag behind many mainstream ICE cars. It does so even at a more expensive price point simply because those manufacturers can spread those features over many more cars, and likely have better relationships / pricing with their suppliers too. So it has no Apple CarPlay / Android auto. It has weak infotainment. It's lacking seat ventilation. The interior trim pieces are on the same level as an Accord level type vehicle. There's no HUD option, no heated steering wheel, no WiFi hotspot, very limited ambient lighting, no 360 degree cameras, etc. You can get all of those features on a Honda Accord Hybrid Touring for just under $40k. For those that don't know, the Accord's Hybrid system operates almost like an EV with a range extender. Most of the time the ICE is decoupled from the drivetrain. So it's not a completely wacko comparison.
So yes, you are paying for the electric drivetrain, and you are paying for the fact that Tesla is a fledgling automaker without the economies of scale of Honda has. But you're also getting, as others mentioned, the best EV drivetrain on the market. You're getting the best suite of driving assistants out there. You're also getting a vehicle that the manufacturer is constantly improving. You're getting lower cost of ownership, both fuel / energy and maintenance. And of course, zero emissions during driving. You're getting a full EV driving experience which means quiet, instant torque, one pedal driving, no shifting or drivetrain harshness, etc.
Is it worth it to you? Only you can answer that. In life almost everything is a tradeoff and Tesla's are no exception. But there are many redeeming qualities that make it a worthy choice vs. a conventional ICE vehicle. You can certainly see that the trade offs were worth it to me.