I can understand why
@Supcom is taking your comments the way he is taking them. The way you are making your comments can be read in a very bad light even though you don't intend them to be read that way.
However, I don't think Tesla would be coding things specifically to manipulate customer disengagements...meaning I don't think they are going to code things in order to gauge umm perhaps "what they can get away with" which is kind of how I am kind of reading your comments. I don't think user disengagements would really be a good metric to use, generally, to help improve code because people disengage for all kind of reasons, real and imaginary.
i will use the windshield wipers as an example though about actually using user actions to help coding. Back in 2019 Tesla was working out some bugs in the automatic windshield wipers and they explicitly used physical user feedback to help improve the code. In this case they explicitly stated the intention and explicitly told people what they were doing and what they wanted people to do.
I think there can be other ways user feedback(disengagements) can help guide code but I think from a general sense that would have to be guided.