I ordered item 2 and 1 from the diagram above which appears to be the 2024 highland car. I'm going to try replacing the set on my 2018 car with them. They generally look the same as the 2018 part, just smoothed out maybe to aid in releasing from the mold for manufacturing. The bushings look different which is why I ordered them. I had to keep telling Tesla I know they "might not fit my 2018". Cost is 360 for the entire front "axle", meaning both sides. Before ordering I checked with Unplugged Performance and was told they haven't validated (tested) the fitment but the lower arms should fit. The hardware is also the same I noticed.
My front upper control arms were replaced recently with the upgraded German Meyle units, and now I hear creaking so I'm going after the lower arms.
If you don't want to spend 3k on coilovers, the Teins are a good option. They ride well, and based on the data it appears they use FSD like the new Highland car. Only downside I see is Tein's design is likely heavier. I had a set briefly on an Acura and Honda. The Honda got plenty of abuse but never had an issue.
Currently @ 135k miles.