Part of which will be the lunch stop that you probably had back in ICE days? We enjoy our food, when on holiday, so will stop for an hour for that reason (and it will get the car from 10% to 100%, but the 80% - 100% will probably take half of that! so not strictly necessary). So I have found that fuelling is 60 minutes lunch stop (or overnight somewhere that has a charger) and 3x 20 minute additional stops
I would fast-charge before departure, if you can face getting up an hour early. My experience was that a 10AMP (might even be 16AMP on Schuko) charge , for a couple of hours before departure, and with car in [unheated] garage, didn't warm the (cold soaked) battery much, and coming home I had limited regen on the way down which dwindled to nothing (perhaps battery got cold again). All those free extra miles swapped for brake wear!
I'm in MS and only 2 of us ... but 4-up and/or M3 and it would be tight ...