... the goal should be to equal or surpass an ICE car in every parameter.
That's just not going to happen in the near term. For an EV to match the range of an ICE car at a comparable price point while maintaining a similar level of comfort and quality will require battery technology that is years away. Until then, EV adoption will be gradual. While such technology is being developed, we can push EVs to people who can make practical use now of the technology that's available now.
"Hey, Honey, I'm going to spend $35,000+ to buy a second car, and we get to take our ten year old car on vacation next summer." doesn't sound like a winning proposition to me.
... My point was that often their second car used to be their primary car. Few people buy a new car to use as their secondary car.
I bought my Roadster to use as my primary car. I take my older, secondary car on my road-trip vacation. My secondary car is more comfortable for long trips. If I had a Model S it would be more comfortable than my Prius, but without the ability to obtain 250 miles of range in under 30 minutes,
reliably, without waiting an hour for my turn at the charger, the Prius would still be more convenient for those road trips.
The goal of making EVs match ICE cars in every parmeter is very far into the future. In the mean time, an EV can be the primary (commuter) car for many families, while the older, secondary, ICE car is the road-trip car.
We're not really that far apart but our focus is different. My assumption has been that Elon actually means it when he says that he wants to replace most gas cars with EVs. Having EVs as secondary cars isn't the way to do it. My intention for purchasing the Model S is to have it as the primary car.
Again, Elon's goal is a long-term one. And the primary car is the one you drive every day. Replacing "most" ICE cars with EVs will not happen with a car that starts at $57,000 for the shortest-range model and costs $77,000 to get 300 ideal miles under ideal conditions at 55 mph. The EV that replaces "most" ICE cars will have to cost less than $30,000 and we are decades away from a $30K car that has 300 miles of range.
My point is that the transition must be gradual. Promote the EVs we have now, for the uses where they work well now, to the people for whom they fit now, and as technology improves and gas becomes more expensive, more people will find them desirable. EVs will never match the range of ICE cars. But gas will reach a price when people can no longer afford the convenience of a five-minute fill-up.
True, but it's not the point. Only when "500 miles" the answer to "How far does it go on a charge?" is when the naysayers shut up.
The hard-core gas-head naysayers will never be convinced, and will never shut up. But they will become irrelevant when a sufficient number of people understand the advantages of EVs and how best to fit them into their driving pattern.
The likes of Jeremy Clarkson will never accept a car that does not produce a lot of noise, because that noise is an important part of the experience for them. It tells the world "I'm coming, and I'm bad." A quiet car for them is like a B-B gun at an NRA convention. But when gas is $25/gallon, the rest of the world will accept that making a lot of noise is just too expensive, and they'll accept the inconvenience of cars that need to be plugged in after 100 miles, or 300 miles, depending on what you can afford.
EVs are coming, but the transition
will be gradual, because manufacturing capacity will grow slowly, and people will replace their ICE cars only as they wear out, and charging infrastructure will grow gradually, and public perception and willingness to accept the new technology will change gradually. So again, we need to promote the EVs we have now for the uses where they make sense now, rather than focusing on the technology we expect to have in 20 years.
Tesla understands this, which is why they started out with a niche car that only a tiny number of people could afford, and then a couple of high-end cars for the upper middle class, in the 50 to 80 thousand dollar class, and only in two or three years from now, a $30K car that will probably have 160 miles ideal range and still not be great for extended road trips, and only when technology has advanced leaps and bounds ahead of where it is, will there be an EV that matches the range of an ICE car at a similar price point. Elon is looking ahead 20 years in his plans for SpaceX, and he's looking ahead at least that far when he says he wants most cards to be electric.