Non cult member here...
"These are technically possible to fix it over internet immediately on a weekend. Every other company does this for a long time."
- What other car company can fix your car over the internet (period), much less on a weekend?
- Because it's technically possible doesn't mean they have too - they have their chosen business model for a reason, and while I agree it's possible and would be nice, it's their choice and our only vote is via purchase or not - for me it didn't dissuade me from a purchase.
My wife's BMW x5 has been waiting for a seat part replacement for 4 months and counting, dealer is 3 blocks away and have horrible service in every instance we've been there - to the point my wife said she'd never get a BMW again (she's had 3 previously). Also, they did do an OTA update (and bricked a lot of the car, it's a 2020 so OTA is in infancy, not listed as beta though) so all companies have challenges.
From my count you lost one weekend with the family (charging issue) - get over it, stuff happens...there's 52 weekends a year, we all lose a few for a variety or reasons....I cut my memorial Day trip short due to weather...have had a 6 month old Toyota Sequoia eat the transmission going over the grapevine in LA, etc....
Elon's income has nothing to do with this - did you historically blame bill g when windows had a bug or crashed or you got crappy support from MS?
I get your upset and that sucks, but personally I wouldn't be near as upset as you, nor would I consider a lawsuit...but you do you and sue away, it's your right! Also, regardless of outcome, sell the car, your obviously not happy with it...I'd stay away from BMW, I'd hate to see your reaction if you went through what my wife did for her first few months of ownership. I've never had an issue with Audi (owned 2), maybe go look at a nice q7, ours was flawless for the 3 years we had it!
Good luck, be cool, life is too short!