’ll tell you what I’m not ready to do: pay $100,000 for a car that’s delivered all filthy and scratched.
@andyroyale well it is a good thing that you don't have to. Though you obviously did or you wouldn't have been driving it. So apparently you really were ready to "pay $100,000 for a car that’s delivered all filthy and scratched."
Some of the stuff is just the way the car is made, did you not look at a Model X before you placed your order? (Some of that '"wiring" you see in the wheels wells is likely the hoses for the air suspension.) That "flimsy, plastic ball joints" is part of the air suspension auto-leveling functionality and I have never seen anyone report that they had theirs break.
Have you tried checking the lane departure warning setting, and if it is on turn it off and take it for another test drive to see if that was your primary HUGE issue?