Don't worry. Many will be pleased to offer advice and help.
Can you be sure that regen mode is in standard not low? There are a few oddities in user profile settings not sticking so it won't be the first time that user profiles have reverted to a different setting.
When stopped fully in hold mode, do you see a
View attachment 594016 iirc top right of the screen? Final stop on hold mode is normally accompanied by a reassuring feint mechanical clunk from the dashboard area. If you don't see this when completely stopped and you are definitely on hold mode, raise a service issue.
Do you get any regen or is it only when you are coming to a complete standstill that you feel that it is lacking? It is easy to check regen by looking at the green line under the current speed then lifting off when travelling at reasonable speeds. The green line should move left of centre to indicate that battery power is being harvested. If you do not see this, then I would raise a service request.
As mentioned earlier, the car will gently roll to a stop rather than sharply braking in final few meters of stopping. How gently this happens can be affected by many things, but importantly, may change from software version to software version. Some recent reports that regen braking has changed recently. This may explain the reason why you feel the car is behaving different to your test drive.
Battery range. Short trips have a disproportionate energy usage vs a longer trip. Some people call this the 'departure tax'. There is often a certain amount energy that the car consumes even if it goes a very short distance. It varies widely but seems to be more greatly influenced by temperature - its probably down to things controlled by the user such as use of heater/AC but some outside users control such as battery conditioning. So a 10 x 5 mile trips will use up significantly more energy than a single 50 mile trip. If you sit in the car and heater needs to warm the cabin, its likely to use a lot of power. And thats going to mostly occur in first few miles.
Sentry - if you use sentry mode, the car will have a very high energy use even just sitting idle. It is reported that, if in sentry the car consumes around 300W of power, or 0.3kWh of energy per hour. That equates to approx 1% of battery every couple of hours or so on a LR battery model, more for the standard range battery. So 1% battery used every 2-3 hours for the car just sat idle doing nothing apart from watching the world go by.
There are also other reasons why the battery may seem to suddenly deplete, but it may also suddenly increase too. Calculating energy in the battery is not an exact science, so the car is constantly having to guess how much energy it thinks is left in the battery. Sometimes these can change wildly especially if there is a temperature change - a bit like parking an ICE vehicle on a hill - if you park one way it may give you a completely different reading on the fuel gauge than if you parked facing the other way. Other factors may be at play and these may not remain constant.