I'm not a Windows person, so I'll tell you the geek method for finding the assigned IP address which is to open a Command Prompt window and enter the command ipconfig. You are correct that the desktop computer won't show up on your router when it is connected to the OVMS access point.Sorry my use of the term "reset" was unclear. I don't mean a factory reset, just a reset by pushing the reset button (the little S2 pushbutton on the module) or alternatively by removing power by disconnecting the cable that goes to the diagnostic port. When the module restarts after the reset the WiFi will come back up in the configuration that you have set.
Since accessing the S2 pushbutton on the module inside its case is inconvenient, I modified my case by cutting a hole directly above S2 and installing a plastic rod to push on the button. The rod I used was the reset button from a discarded hair dryer GFCI plug which happened to be the right length and shape (after one minor modification) and already had the word RESET embossed on the top. An alternative implementation would be to install a pushbutton switch on the case somewhere and run wires to the board in parallel with S2.
Mark already responded with the commands to reset the WiFi. I use "wifi mode off" and "wifi mode client Revelstoke", where Revelstoke is the SSID for my home network.
OK, that's helpful. But how do I send any commands? I don't have cell access, and I don't have Wifi access. Perhaps I have to hook up the USB cable again.
What is the difference between pressing the reset button and unplugging/ reconnecting the power via the cable?