I'm not going to run out to the Wayback Machine, but if someone can pull up this blog post referenced, obviously whatever that was said in that referenced post was what Elon was summarizing. Again, for context. The blog post no longer exists on Tesla's website as far as I can tell. Again, this tweet appears to be for people who bought a Tesla, but 1) bought only EAP (so eligible to buy at FSD at $2k) or 2) did not buy either (so can buy just AP for $2k, or both AP & FSD for an additional $3k, so $5k total). The others (you!) were promised Early Access as I recall from that blog post, perhaps after some more Twitter pronouncements (which I do not dispute).
So in correspondence with Tesla I would have never mentioned getting money back, but focus on Early Access. I think it's legit to want to be part of Early Access, as that is what they said would happen, as I recall.
Speaking of Early Access, are we sure that people who bought the FSD package are not in the early release group? Did you get Smart Summon on the Thursday or Friday that it was first released? It was never clear to me whether that release was staged according to what people had bought.