I personally don't get all the angst over f'ing wheel/tire looks. It does interest me in the same way wine critics or beer snobs talk about the best glass shape. Really do not give a hoot but I'm curious how you such people think. Lots of members apparently actually care.
So do you not care what the car looks like then? Wheels are a pretty big part of that. You can certainly say appearance is irrelevant to you, that's fine, and puts you in small minority I would say.