The tires don't care what causes a deceleration. You can do 50% regen and 50% friction brakes, or 100% regen and no friction brakes. To the tires the deceleration is the same and the wear and tear on them is also the same. In other words, it makes no difference because the car has to slow down one way or another and the tires always get the same amount of load.
What has a big effect on tires is your driving style. I got 55k miles out of my first set of tires, while others had to change after 15k. How? I accelerate only with 40-80 kW, and I lift my foot off the pedal in time so that regen brings the car to (almost) a stop at a red light. I have always used 'normal' setting on regen.