Emperor Akbar once asked his very dear minister, Birbal, "Tell me, how easy is it to bring up a child?" Birbal replied, "Your Majesty, to bring up a child is the most difficult job in this world. Because children are innocent: they don't know what is right or what is wrong, and they don't have any knowledge of the things of the world. It is very hard to convince them to do anything. So I would say that it is the most difficult work in the world to take care of the children." But Emperor Akbar replied, "I don't believe that; I don't agree with you. Because no doubt children don't know anything, but whatever they ask for, you give them, and that's all. They will do whatever you want them to do. The only thing you have to do is always fulfill their desires."
Birbal replied, "Well, you cannot always fulfill their desires, because they don't know what they are asking for." Emperor Akbar said, "No, I don't agree with that. You should prove this, that it is the most difficult work in the world." Birbal said, "Okay. Now I will become your child and you become my parent. Then let's see how easy it is for you to take care of me, to fulfill my desires."
So Birbal pretended he was the son of Emperor Akbar and he started asking for things. First, he said, "Father, I want an elephant." Now you know that Emperor Akbar was an emperor, he was the king of everything, so it was not difficult for him to get an elephant. So an elephant was brought. And then Birbal said, "Now I want a small glass." A glass was brought. Then Birbal said, "Okay, father, I want to put this elephant in this glass."
Now Emperor Akbar said, "How is that possible? The glass is too small and the elephant is very big! How is it possible?" He tried to convince him that it was not possible. But Birbal said, "No, I want to do that! Otherwise I will weep."
So Emperor Akbar tried in many other ways to convince him that it was not possible. But Birbal wouldn't accept that and he started weeping. Finally Emperor Akbar said, "Now I agree with you that it is a very difficult thing to take care of a child. But what is the solution for this?" Birbal replied that the parents should have a lot of patience. Because if they have patience and if they keep trying to convince the children, if they keep trying to raise them in a good way, in the end they will become successful in taking care of their children.
So that is why I will say that no doubt it is the most difficult job in the world to take care of the children, but unless we have patience there is no way out of this problem. I agree that children are stubborn and that they have the will power. But if you have patience, you can win their hearts. If you keep trying, patiently, eventually you will become successful, and then they will do whatever you want them to do.