Yup- and then a shop actually checked (I think they were redoing someones interior or something) and it was there...
Which made it even weirder to have the actual Tesla employee giving me a test drive in Raleigh a couple weeks later insisting the hardware wasn't there and suggesting not to order yet if that was important to me... was my first confirmation Tesla salespeople are at least as badly informed about their own products as legacy car dealers tend to be.
legacy car dealers have a vested interest in pushing upgrades though. Tesla doesn't compensate SAs that way right?