I would say for us it was somewhere in between. We always had power available for lights, HVAC, refrigerator, cooking, network/servers, etc. But we also used the advance notice to run all the high-load appliances (do all the laundry, run the dishwasher, charge the cars), so we could minimize our electric usage. Because our daily solar output doesn't cover our usage, during the outage we were drawing down the reserves in the Powerwalls. Admittedly I was getting a little nervous towards the end, but I think we could have held out a few more days if we had to (our part of the grid was down for 61 hours). Next time I think we'll be a little more aggressive in shedding loads at the start.
Bruce.