When you venture beyond 50% of your range, say 140-160 miles, then high speed DC charging (aka Superchargers) are indispensable and going from 20-80% in 15-25 minutes to get back home is a more preferable than being on an L2 6-7kW charger for 2+ hours. Really, is your wife going to put up with that?
I think that the Telsa Supercharger network was the key part of Tesla's growth and dominance in the EV space as it eliminated serious range anxiety. I was looking at the Kia Ioniq 5, and likely would have bought one if I could have gotten one at MSRP instead of the insane $8-10K market up, and there did appear to be high speed DC charging in the areas that my wife goes to, but the number of stations is much lower than Tesla has available. I have been seeing a lot of stories of maintenance issues in non-Tesla networks. I do use a number of free L2 chargers (ChargePoint and Voltas) and I have seen some of the issues first hand.