That's a big question:
What would you do with your life, if you could do anything you wanted? A friend asked me that in May 1997, as I was setting up a Linux mail server for our nascent Internet co-op, using the 2nd DSL line installed in our city (he lives in Vancouver now, VP of a large Telecom Co.).
[My answer may not surprise you (I suspect you have already realized it too), but I'll share it with the group because there may be a few folks that don't know it yet, or don't really believe its true, or that it applies to them.]
Back in '97 I paused, blinked, looked at my friend, and said simply: "
You know, you're right! I can do anything I want". Mid-thirties, healthy, strong, well-educated, it was like I was suddenly awake to the possibilities before me in life. I think THAT's the day I truly became an adult. It all comes down to choosing your own path, doing it well (so you can be proud of yourself), and making the work matter.
I've walked many roads in my life. I've been a home owner since I was 12 (thanks Dad, miss you). I was a honor student and track athlete in High School (ran 4:13 mile when I was 16). I have undergraduate studies in 7 specalties in business and science, and my 1st job after graduating was teaching a 400-level Statistics Lab titled "Test Theory". I am a retired Army Officer (thanks Col Mike, miss you), have owned my own IT business, and worked as a Computer Instructor.
I have never failed at anything I tried to do for a
technical reason. It inevitably involves human factors, generally resolving down to greed, jealousy, or hidden motives. Solution for that sounds simple, right? Jetison. But thats not so simple when interpersonal relationships are involved. People want/need things from you, and they don't want to consider the effects of their request on you. Eventually, you just find a balance.
These past 12 years, I've focused most of my effort on learning Climate Science (
hint: we're in
deep doo-doo), and now working on the ONLY tenable solution, which is accelerating the World's transition to sustainable energy. Tks, Elon.
And my journey's not done. I have many more roads I plan to walk, beginning with my new Tesla Model Y LR AWD and my National Parks passport. When I see something interesting, and important, I plan to stop and do it. "
Adventure is out there."
How's that?
Oh, if you're still reading this,
YOU CAN DO IT TOO. You really can. If you free you mind, your feet will take you where you need to go.
This is NOT the end, this is the beginning.
Cheers!