I got a call today from TorkLift asking if I had not installed the hitch yet. I told them I had and I'd found the reason why they were calling, the flange nuts. He apologized that they were different on my car and said there was no reason to believe the ones from Home Depot were any worse than the ones that came with the car. I suggested that they should re-write the manual to include a tools list and better descriptions of steps to remove things.
I have a hitch on my other car and when I back out of the drive it scrapes. Now when I back into the driveway the Tesla hits and STOPS. Probably not going to keep the hitch on the car all the time, but I can also approach the driveway at an angle.
Glad you got yours done. Did you see the water come out or rust that I documented? I lost one of the torx screws when reassembling. It dropped down inside and I never found it, even taking the bumper back off. Took the car to Tesla today to get a replacement for the missing bolt I discovered and asked if they also had that screw, I would be happy to pay, and they put it back for me. Ended up sitting for 4 hours while they worked on the car, they found things, I suggested we look at things. Ended up driving home in a loaner. All that for want of a missing bolt. They didn't say much about the hitch, certainly didn't mention I was busting my warranty.
-Randy