John, sorry to hear about your fob issues. I’m shocked that only one fob came with your X. That’s a real screwup on Tesla’s part.they only gave me one fob when I picked up the car.
If I was in your position I would call the nearest SC (Buena Park) and explain the problem and tell them you need a loaner X if they can’t fix your fob problem in an hour when you bring it in. Ask if they can send someone to your house; maybe they will.
It can be a challenge owning a Tesla and living so far from an SC. I have actually advised people I know who live several hours drive from an SC and want to buy a Tesla not to buy one. These cars aren’t perfect (no car is) and stuff happens.