I've got this torque wrench:
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000FMO6HG/ref=wms_ohs_product. It's 3/8" drive (100ft-lbs), which is fine for Roadster, but for Model S's higher torque you'll want the 1/2" drive version:
http://www.amazon.com/TORQ-SPLIT-BEAM-CLICK-STYLE-250FT/dp/B00063XG52/ that can handle up to 250ft-lbs.
Made in the US, split-torque type, so you don't need to turn it down when not in use (you do know that normal torque wrenches should be turned to zero when not in use, right?), and 4% accuracy.
As for sockets, I wouldn't recommend an impact set. Those have thicker walls and in my experience looser tolerances. The thicker walls mean you can't use them on normal car lug nuts, or in other situations you're likely to encounter, so if you have other cars you might want to look for a regular set. For Roadster, it doesn't matter as the spline and lock adapters stick out from the wheel enough. A US made 1/2" 17mm socket can be gotten for $10.50:
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00004WBNG/ref=gno_cart_title_1 and maybe cheaper locally.
Finally, for jacks, well, there's no really good answer. Everything under $500 is made overseas. The castings and such are usually fine, even impressive on most, but the achilles heel are the valves and valve seals. For Roadster, you need a semi-low profile jack. A 4.25" minimum height works just fine (modulo hockey puck addition and loss of height if you've got a completely flat tire). If you're content to use the rear jacking point for both tires then it doesn't need to be a deep reach version. I got this one:
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0007XQN56/ref=oh_details_o00_s00_i00?ie=UTF8&psc=1 Despite what they say, it's not a racing jack - it's not particularly light and takes more than a few strokes to lift all the way up. It's also not particularly low profile - but it's more than low enough for Roadster (and just almost deep enough to reach the front jack point - almost) it's rated at 3 Tons, it's not as heavy as most 3 Ton jacks, and the price isn't as high as the the all-aluminum ones. It's low-profile enough that I was able to replace the thin stock pad with a hockey puck and still fits under Roadster: