From the Tesla online store. But they are frequently sold out, and I think some people noticed that the link to the page is broken, so maybe Tesla has discontinued it--don't know. Or you could go Ebay.
Nah. I concur with the others that there is really no need for it. There is hardly any use for that in the United States anymore. Granted, I did just use mine a couple of weeks ago, because I live near one of the last remaining really big holes in the Supercharger network at the corner of Oregon, Idaho, and Nevada that doesn't have any interstates through there. But generally no need, and especially with Tesla releasing a CCS adapter very soon, which will be much more useful.