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My guess is that you are logged into the tesla app with a different account than the one you use for your car. One in which you have authorized as being able to access the tesla, but not the primary account.
What you are looking at (service and roadside assistance not in the app) is very consistent with what a secondary account who is authorized to drive the car sees.