So is L3 (and the other levels) official ?... I thought it was just some commonly accepted internet definitionThat's not at all correct though.
Perhaps you need to go back and re-read the definition of L3? And also what an ODD is?
Nothing about "needs to go over X speed" or "needs to drive on a specific road type" is required to be L3.
Even L4 systems could have those restrictions and absolutely be L4 by EVERY definition of SAE J3016.
I think people who spend an hour or more a day commuting in exactly the ODD Mercedes has set might disagree with you.... though I agree we don't have enough info on how well it works yet in those conditions... but dismissing the conditions it operates in as useless suggests you've never lived anywhere with real rush hour type traffic?