That's just the way they work...the buttons on all the Tesla (well, NACS, I guess) charging equipment broadcast a radio signal that tell all the cars around them to open charge ports. I'm pretty sure it's designed to work this way, in any case it's worked this way as long as I can remember. If this behavior is undesirable for some reason, you can use the mobile app, key fob, or MCU screen to open the charge port on one specific car.
(We have two Teslas and a corded mobile connector at home, and the CMC's button opens both cars' charge ports if they're in range. You can do this at Supercharger sites too, although it's usually a no-op in that situation, because most cars there have their charge ports open and connected.)
Bruce.