I don't have hard stats for you, but just look at the take rate on AP as an option since it's been available. Again, I don't have the numbers but I'd be shocked if it's under 90%. I expect the same with AP2.Well, he "knows" us, and I certainly love using Auto Pilot on my X, and my wife would love to trade ours in to get one with newer AP hardware (not gonna happen - the first X is a stretch, we can't take the depreciation + sales tax + full wrap hit to trade it in; even a double dip on the tax credit would only cover one of the above).
That said, do you have data that says he is clearly in the minority? What I see is one anecdote, followed by another anecdote, neither with actual statistical data. I know a lot of people that are excite about autonomy. I know a lot of people that are scared of it. I know a lot of people that think it's stupid, and why wouldn't you want to drive your own car. I have no idea how the sizes of those groups compare to each other. It's also interesting that different social circles of mine tend to clump into one of those groups. So just looking at "neighbors" gives a completely different picture than "coworkers".
As for the rest of the public, their opinion doesn't really count right now as they are not informed. The only data point that matters for me: once you show a validated, fully autonomous car that has been proven to be 5x (or some other multiple) safer than manual driving, will that be of interest to them at that time? I suspect that demand for this product is incalculable. For the rest of people who can't imagine any use for this - the car will still be able to be operated manually at any time. The availability of a feature they don't want to use for whatever reason shouldn't hinder the purchasing decision. Hell, I bet many such people will buy the option anyway to help with resale value because I am sure that they will understand that they are in the clear minority.