The DCC kills the power to the evse but cannot throttle it so it only has that failsafe benefit. Of course that’s by opening the contactors so not exactly great.
Since the WC can theoretically vary the current the WC setup could be made reasonably safe by requiring a fixed amount of unused current. For example keeping 30a always “free”. The chance of multiple things ramping up super quick is pretty low. I’d wager that would even get decent charge rate overnight on a 60a panel.
the constant communication requirement is doable, but makes the system more susceptible to outages. Maybe a fallback of 12a if it cannot verify current house usage.
I have 200a service. 50a (40a) evse, 3 AC units, electric dryer, 2 electric ovens, a 5kw spa heater, and 4600 square ft of lighting and my panel has never been over 118a when measured at a 10 min average over the past 5 years.